refactor: Transform daemon_boyfriend into Loyal Companion

Rebrand and personalize the bot as 'Bartender' - a companion for those
who love deeply and feel intensely.

Major changes:
- Rename package: daemon_boyfriend -> loyal_companion
- New default personality: Bartender - wise, steady, non-judgmental
- Grief-aware system prompt (no toxic positivity, attachment-informed)
- New relationship levels: New Face -> Close Friend progression
- Bartender-style mood modifiers (steady presence)
- New fact types: attachment_pattern, grief_context, coping_mechanism
- Lower mood decay (0.05) for emotional stability
- Higher fact extraction rate (0.4) - Bartender pays attention

Updated all imports, configs, Docker files, and documentation.

docs/README.md

@@ -142,7 +142,7 @@ OPENAI_API_KEY=your_key
 ### 3. Run
 
 ```bash
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 ```
 
 ### 4. Interact

docs/architecture.md

@@ -61,8 +61,8 @@ This document provides a comprehensive overview of the Daemon Boyfriend Discord
 ## Directory Structure
 
 ```
-daemon-boyfriend/
-├── src/daemon_boyfriend/
+loyal-companion/
+├── src/loyal_companion/
 │   ├── __main__.py          # Entry point
 │   ├── bot.py               # Discord bot setup & cog loading
 │   ├── config.py            # Pydantic settings configuration

docs/configuration.md

@@ -172,7 +172,7 @@ Custom system prompt. If not set, one is generated from `BOT_NAME` and `BOT_PERS
 ### DATABASE_URL
 
 ```bash
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 ```
 
 **Default:** `None` (in-memory mode)
@@ -453,7 +453,7 @@ Logging verbosity level.
 ### LOG_FILE
 
 ```bash
-LOG_FILE=/var/log/daemon_boyfriend.log
+LOG_FILE=/var/log/loyal_companion.log
 ```
 
 **Default:** `None` (console only)
@@ -522,7 +522,7 @@ BOT_STATUS=for @mentions
 # DATABASE (Optional - runs in-memory if not set)
 # -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 # DATABASE_ECHO=false
 # DATABASE_POOL_SIZE=5
 # DATABASE_MAX_OVERFLOW=10
@@ -579,7 +579,7 @@ COMMANDS_ENABLED=true
 # -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
 LOG_LEVEL=INFO
-# LOG_FILE=/var/log/daemon_boyfriend.log
+# LOG_FILE=/var/log/loyal_companion.log
 ```
 
 ---

docs/database.md

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ This document describes the database schema used by Daemon Boyfriend.
 
 ```bash
 # PostgreSQL connection string
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 
 # Optional settings
 DATABASE_ECHO=false        # Log SQL queries
@@ -499,7 +499,7 @@ All indexes are created with `IF NOT EXISTS` for idempotency.
 ### From Code
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db
 
 # Initialize connection
 await db.init()
@@ -512,10 +512,10 @@ await db.create_tables()
 
 ```bash
 # Create database
-createdb daemon_boyfriend
+createdb loyal_companion
 
 # Run schema
-psql -U postgres -d daemon_boyfriend -f schema.sql
+psql -U postgres -d loyal_companion -f schema.sql
 ```
 
 ### Docker
@@ -552,7 +552,7 @@ alembic downgrade -1
 For JSONB (PostgreSQL) and JSON (SQLite) compatibility:
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import PortableJSON
+from loyal_companion.models.base import PortableJSON
 
 class MyModel(Base):
     settings = Column(PortableJSON, default={})
@@ -563,7 +563,7 @@ class MyModel(Base):
 Handles timezone-naive datetimes from SQLite:
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import ensure_utc
+from loyal_companion.models.base import ensure_utc
 
 # Safe for both PostgreSQL (already UTC) and SQLite (naive)
 utc_time = ensure_utc(model.created_at)

docs/guides/README.md

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ Practical guides for extending and working with the Daemon Boyfriend codebase.
 ```bash
 # Clone repository
 git clone <repository-url>
-cd daemon-boyfriend
+cd loyal-companion
 
 # Create virtual environment
 python -m venv venv
@@ -61,7 +61,7 @@ OPENAI_API_KEY=your_key
 
 ```bash
 # Run the bot
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 
 # Or with Docker
 docker-compose up -d
@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@ docker-compose up -d
 
 ### Step 1: Create Provider Class
 
-Create `src/daemon_boyfriend/services/providers/new_provider.py`:
+Create `src/loyal_companion/services/providers/new_provider.py`:
 
 ```python
 """New Provider implementation."""
@@ -197,7 +197,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
 # In tests/test_providers.py
 
 import pytest
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import NewProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import NewProvider
 
 @pytest.mark.asyncio
 async def test_new_provider():
@@ -250,8 +250,8 @@ import logging
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -313,7 +313,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User
+from loyal_companion.models import User
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -399,7 +399,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
 ```python
 # In cogs/ai_chat.py
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
+from loyal_companion.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
 
 class AIChatCog(commands.Cog):
     async def _build_enhanced_prompt(self, ...):
@@ -427,7 +427,7 @@ pip install -e ".[dev]"
 python -m pytest tests/ -v
 
 # Run with coverage
-python -m pytest tests/ --cov=daemon_boyfriend --cov-report=term-missing
+python -m pytest tests/ --cov=loyal_companion --cov-report=term-missing
 
 # Run specific test file
 python -m pytest tests/test_models.py -v
@@ -442,7 +442,7 @@ python -m pytest tests/test_services.py::TestMoodService -v
 # In tests/test_new_feature.py
 
 import pytest
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
+from loyal_companion.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
 
 
 class TestNewFeatureService:
@@ -517,7 +517,7 @@ docker-compose down
 pip install -r requirements.txt
 
 # Run with process manager (e.g., systemd)
-# Create /etc/systemd/system/daemon-boyfriend.service:
+# Create /etc/systemd/system/loyal-companion.service:
 
 [Unit]
 Description=Daemon Boyfriend Discord Bot
@@ -526,10 +526,10 @@ After=network.target postgresql.service
 [Service]
 Type=simple
 User=daemon
-WorkingDirectory=/opt/daemon-boyfriend
-Environment="PATH=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/venv/bin"
-EnvironmentFile=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/.env
-ExecStart=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/venv/bin/python -m daemon_boyfriend
+WorkingDirectory=/opt/loyal-companion
+Environment="PATH=/opt/loyal-companion/venv/bin"
+EnvironmentFile=/opt/loyal-companion/.env
+ExecStart=/opt/loyal-companion/venv/bin/python -m loyal_companion
 Restart=always
 RestartSec=10
 
@@ -539,18 +539,18 @@ WantedBy=multi-user.target
 
 ```bash
 # Enable and start
-sudo systemctl enable daemon-boyfriend
-sudo systemctl start daemon-boyfriend
+sudo systemctl enable loyal-companion
+sudo systemctl start loyal-companion
 ```
 
 ### Database Setup
 
 ```bash
 # Create database
-sudo -u postgres createdb daemon_boyfriend
+sudo -u postgres createdb loyal_companion
 
 # Run schema
-psql -U postgres -d daemon_boyfriend -f schema.sql
+psql -U postgres -d loyal_companion -f schema.sql
 
 # Or let the bot create tables
 # (tables are created automatically on first run)

docs/living-ai/fact-extraction.md

@@ -328,7 +328,7 @@ class FactExtractionService:
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
+from loyal_companion.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     fact_service = FactExtractionService(session, ai_service)

docs/living-ai/mood-system.md

@@ -311,7 +311,7 @@ class MoodState:
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.mood_service import MoodService
+from loyal_companion.services.mood_service import MoodService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     mood_service = MoodService(session)

docs/living-ai/opinion-system.md

@@ -322,7 +322,7 @@ def extract_topics_from_message(message: str) -> list[str]
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.opinion_service import (
+from loyal_companion.services.opinion_service import (
     OpinionService, 
     extract_topics_from_message
 )

docs/living-ai/relationship-system.md

@@ -334,7 +334,7 @@ class RelationshipLevel(Enum):
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.relationship_service import RelationshipService
+from loyal_companion.services.relationship_service import RelationshipService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     rel_service = RelationshipService(session)

docs/services/README.md

@@ -28,8 +28,8 @@ Factory and facade for AI providers. Manages provider creation, switching, and p
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service import AIService
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.services.ai_service import AIService
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
 
 # Use default settings
 ai_service = AIService()
@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ ai_service = AIService(config=custom_settings)
 Generate a chat response.
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import Message
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import Message
 
 response = await ai_service.chat(
     messages=[
@@ -109,7 +109,7 @@ Manages database connections and sessions.
 #### Global Instance
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db, get_db
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db, get_db
 
 # Get global instance
 db_service = get_db()
@@ -170,7 +170,7 @@ Service for user-related operations.
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.user_service import UserService
+from loyal_companion.services.user_service import UserService
 
 async with db.session() as session:
     user_service = UserService(session)
@@ -297,7 +297,7 @@ In-memory conversation history manager (used when no database).
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.conversation import ConversationManager
+from loyal_companion.services.conversation import ConversationManager
 
 conversation_manager = ConversationManager(max_history=50)
 ```
@@ -397,7 +397,7 @@ Web search integration using SearXNG.
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.searxng import SearXNGService
+from loyal_companion.services.searxng import SearXNGService
 
 searxng = SearXNGService()
 ```
@@ -444,7 +444,7 @@ Health checks and metrics tracking.
 #### Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.monitoring import MonitoringService
+from loyal_companion.services.monitoring import MonitoringService
 
 monitoring = MonitoringService()
 
@@ -479,7 +479,7 @@ print(status)
 ### Base Classes
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import (
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import (
     AIProvider,      # Abstract base class
     Message,         # Chat message
     AIResponse,      # Response from provider
@@ -541,7 +541,7 @@ class AIProvider(ABC):
 ### Example: Direct Provider Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import OpenAIProvider, Message
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import OpenAIProvider, Message
 
 provider = OpenAIProvider(
     api_key="sk-...",