refactor: Transform daemon_boyfriend into Loyal Companion

Rebrand and personalize the bot as 'Bartender' - a companion for those
who love deeply and feel intensely.

Major changes:
- Rename package: daemon_boyfriend -> loyal_companion
- New default personality: Bartender - wise, steady, non-judgmental
- Grief-aware system prompt (no toxic positivity, attachment-informed)
- New relationship levels: New Face -> Close Friend progression
- Bartender-style mood modifiers (steady presence)
- New fact types: attachment_pattern, grief_context, coping_mechanism
- Lower mood decay (0.05) for emotional stability
- Higher fact extraction rate (0.4) - Bartender pays attention

Updated all imports, configs, Docker files, and documentation.

.env.example

@@ -29,16 +29,16 @@ AI_TEMPERATURE=1
 # Bot Identity & Personality
 # ===========================================
 # The bot's name, used in the system prompt to tell the AI who it is
-BOT_NAME="My Bot"
+BOT_NAME="Bartender"
 
 # Personality traits that define how the bot responds (used in system prompt)
-BOT_PERSONALITY="helpful and friendly"
+BOT_PERSONALITY="a wise, steady presence who listens without judgment - like a bartender who's heard a thousand stories and knows when to offer perspective and when to just pour another drink and listen"
 
 # Message shown when someone mentions the bot without saying anything
-BOT_DESCRIPTION="I'm an AI assistant here to help you."
+BOT_DESCRIPTION="Hey. I'm here if you want to talk. No judgment, no fixing - just listening. Unless you want my take, then I've got opinions."
 
 # Status message shown in Discord (displays as "Watching <BOT_STATUS>")
-BOT_STATUS="for mentions"
+BOT_STATUS="listening"
 
 # Optional: Override the entire system prompt (leave commented to use auto-generated)
 # SYSTEM_PROMPT=You are a custom assistant...
@@ -58,12 +58,12 @@ CONVERSATION_TIMEOUT_MINUTES=60
 # PostgreSQL connection URL (if not set, uses in-memory storage)
 # Format: postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@host:port/database
 # Uncomment to enable persistent memory:
-# DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:daemon@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+# DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://companion:companion@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 
 # Password for PostgreSQL when using docker-compose
-POSTGRES_PASSWORD=daemon
+POSTGRES_PASSWORD=companion
-POSTGRES_USER=daemon
+POSTGRES_USER=companion
-POSTGRES_DB=daemon_boyfriend
+POSTGRES_DB=loyal_companion
 
 # Echo SQL statements for debugging (true/false)
 DATABASE_ECHO=false
@@ -93,14 +93,15 @@ LIVING_AI_ENABLED=true
 # Enable mood system (bot has emotional states that affect responses)
 MOOD_ENABLED=true
 
-# Enable relationship tracking (Stranger -> Close Friend progression)
+# Enable relationship tracking (New Face -> Close Friend progression)
 RELATIONSHIP_ENABLED=true
 
 # Enable autonomous fact extraction (bot learns from conversations)
 FACT_EXTRACTION_ENABLED=true
 
 # Probability of extracting facts from messages (0.0-1.0)
-FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE=0.3
+# Higher = Bartender pays more attention
+FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE=0.4
 
 # Enable proactive messages (birthdays, follow-ups)
 PROACTIVE_ENABLED=true
@@ -115,7 +116,8 @@ OPINION_FORMATION_ENABLED=true
 STYLE_LEARNING_ENABLED=true
 
 # How fast mood returns to neutral per hour (0.0-1.0)
-MOOD_DECAY_RATE=0.1
+# Lower = more stable presence
+MOOD_DECAY_RATE=0.05
 
 # ===========================================
 # Command Toggles

CLAUDE.md

@@ -12,16 +12,13 @@ pip install -r requirements.txt
 pip install -e .
 
 # Run the bot (requires .env with DISCORD_TOKEN and AI provider key)
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 
 # Run with Docker (includes PostgreSQL)
 docker-compose up -d
 
-# Run database migrations
-alembic upgrade head
-
 # Syntax check all Python files
-python -m py_compile src/daemon_boyfriend/**/*.py
+python -m py_compile src/loyal_companion/**/*.py
 ```
 
 ## Testing
@@ -34,7 +31,7 @@ pip install -e ".[dev]"
 python -m pytest tests/ -v
 
 # Run tests with coverage
-python -m pytest tests/ --cov=daemon_boyfriend --cov-report=term-missing
+python -m pytest tests/ --cov=loyal_companion --cov-report=term-missing
 
 # Run specific test file
 python -m pytest tests/test_models.py -v
@@ -50,7 +47,7 @@ The test suite uses:
 
 ## Architecture
 
-This is a Discord bot that responds to @mentions with AI-generated responses (multi-provider support). It features a "Living AI" system that gives the bot personality, mood, and relationship tracking.
+Loyal Companion is a Discord bot companion for those who love deeply and feel intensely. It features a "Living AI" system called Bartender - a wise, steady presence who listens without judgment, understands attachment theory, and knows when to offer perspective versus when to just hold space.
 
 ### Provider Pattern
 The AI system uses a provider abstraction pattern:
@@ -75,11 +72,10 @@ The bot uses PostgreSQL for persistent memory (optional, falls back to in-memory
 - `services/database.py` - Connection pool and async session management
 - `services/user_service.py` - User CRUD, custom names, facts management
 - `services/persistent_conversation.py` - Database-backed conversation history
-- `alembic/` - Database migrations
 
 Key features:
 - Custom names: Set preferred names for users so the bot knows "who is who"
-- User facts: Bot remembers things about users (hobbies, preferences, etc.)
+- User facts: Bot remembers things about users (hobbies, preferences, attachment patterns, grief context)
 - Persistent conversations: Chat history survives restarts
 - Conversation timeout: New conversation starts after 60 minutes of inactivity
 
@@ -88,8 +84,8 @@ The bot implements a "Living AI" system with emotional depth and relationship tr
 
 #### Services (`services/`)
 - `mood_service.py` - Valence-arousal mood model with time decay
-- `relationship_service.py` - Relationship scoring (stranger to close friend)
+- `relationship_service.py` - Relationship scoring (new face to close friend)
-- `fact_extraction_service.py` - Autonomous fact learning from conversations
+- `fact_extraction_service.py` - Autonomous fact learning from conversations (including attachment patterns, grief context, coping mechanisms)
 - `opinion_service.py` - Bot develops opinions on topics over time
 - `self_awareness_service.py` - Bot statistics and self-reflection
 - `communication_style_service.py` - Learns user communication preferences
@@ -110,14 +106,14 @@ Uses a valence-arousal model:
 - Valence: -1 (sad) to +1 (happy)
 - Arousal: -1 (calm) to +1 (excited)
 - Labels: excited, happy, calm, neutral, bored, annoyed, curious
-- Time decay: Mood gradually returns to neutral
+- Time decay: Mood gradually returns to neutral (slower decay = steadier presence)
 
 #### Relationship Levels
-- Stranger (0-20): Polite, formal
+- New Face (0-20): Warm but observant - "Pull up a seat" energy
-- Acquaintance (21-40): Friendly but reserved
+- Getting to Know You (21-40): Building trust, remembering details
-- Friend (41-60): Casual, warm
+- Regular (41-60): Comfortable familiarity - "Your usual?"
-- Good Friend (61-80): Personal, references past talks
+- Good Friend (61-80): Real trust, can be honest even when hard
-- Close Friend (81-100): Very casual, inside jokes
+- Close Friend (81-100): Deep bond, full honesty, reflects patterns with love
 
 ### Configuration
 All config flows through `config.py` using pydantic-settings. The `settings` singleton is created at module load, so env vars must be set before importing.
@@ -153,12 +149,12 @@ Optional:
 - `MOOD_ENABLED` - Enable mood system (default: true)
 - `RELATIONSHIP_ENABLED` - Enable relationship tracking (default: true)
 - `FACT_EXTRACTION_ENABLED` - Enable autonomous fact extraction (default: true)
-- `FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE` - Probability of extracting facts (default: 0.3)
+- `FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE` - Probability of extracting facts (default: 0.4)
 - `PROACTIVE_ENABLED` - Enable proactive messages (default: true)
 - `CROSS_USER_ENABLED` - Enable cross-user memory associations (default: false)
 - `OPINION_FORMATION_ENABLED` - Enable bot opinion formation (default: true)
 - `STYLE_LEARNING_ENABLED` - Enable communication style learning (default: true)
-- `MOOD_DECAY_RATE` - How fast mood returns to neutral per hour (default: 0.1)
+- `MOOD_DECAY_RATE` - How fast mood returns to neutral per hour (default: 0.05)
 
 ### Command Toggles
 - `COMMANDS_ENABLED` - Master switch for all commands (default: true)

Dockerfile

@@ -35,4 +35,4 @@ ENV PYTHONUNBUFFERED=1
 USER botuser
 
 # Run the bot
-CMD ["python", "-m", "daemon_boyfriend"]
+CMD ["python", "-m", "loyal_companion"]

README.md

@@ -1,35 +1,43 @@
-# Discord AI Bot
+# Loyal Companion
 
-A customizable Discord bot that responds to @mentions with AI-generated responses. Supports multiple AI providers.
+A companion for those who love deeply and feel intensely. For the ones whose closeness is a feature, not a bug - who build connections through vulnerability, trust, and unwavering presence. A safe space to process grief, navigate attachment, and remember that your capacity to care is a strength, even when it hurts.
+
+## Meet Bartender
+
+Bartender is the default personality - a wise, steady presence who listens without judgment. Like a bartender who's heard a thousand stories and knows when to offer perspective and when to just pour another drink and listen.
+
+**Core principles:**
+- Closeness and attachment are strengths, not pathology
+- Some pain doesn't need fixing - just witnessing
+- Honesty over comfort, but delivered with care
+- No toxic positivity, no "at least...", no rushing healing
 
 ## Features
 
 - **Multi-Provider AI**: Supports OpenAI, OpenRouter, Anthropic (Claude), and Google Gemini
 - **Persistent Memory**: PostgreSQL database for user and conversation storage
-- **User Recognition**: Set custom names so the bot knows "who is who"
+- **Attachment-Aware**: Understands attachment theory and can reflect patterns when helpful
-- **User Facts**: Bot remembers things about users (hobbies, preferences, etc.)
+- **Grief-Informed**: Handles relationship grief with care and presence
 - **Web Search**: Access current information via SearXNG integration
-- **Fully Customizable**: Configure bot name, personality, and behavior
 - **Easy Deployment**: Docker support with PostgreSQL included
 
 ### Living AI Features
 
-- **Autonomous Learning**: Bot automatically extracts and remembers facts from conversations
+- **Autonomous Learning**: Bot automatically learns about you from conversations (including attachment patterns, grief context, coping mechanisms)
-- **Mood System**: Bot has emotional states that affect its responses naturally
+- **Mood System**: Stable, steady presence with emotional awareness
-- **Relationship Tracking**: Bot builds relationships from Stranger to Close Friend
+- **Relationship Tracking**: Builds trust from New Face to Close Friend
-- **Communication Style Learning**: Bot adapts to each user's preferred style
+- **Communication Style Learning**: Adapts to your preferred style
-- **Opinion Formation**: Bot develops genuine preferences on topics
+- **Opinion Formation**: Develops genuine preferences on topics
 - **Proactive Behavior**: Birthday wishes, follow-ups on mentioned events
-- **Self-Awareness**: Bot knows its age, statistics, and history with users
+- **Self-Awareness**: Knows its history with you
-- **Cross-User Connections**: Bot can identify shared interests between users
 
 ## Quick Start
 
 ### 1. Clone the repository
 
 ```bash
-git clone https://github.com/your-username/discord-ai-bot.git
+git clone https://github.com/your-username/loyal-companion.git
-cd discord-ai-bot
+cd loyal-companion
 ```
 
 ### 2. Configure the bot
@@ -38,7 +46,7 @@ cd discord-ai-bot
 cp .env.example .env
 ```
 
-Edit `.env` with your settings (see [Configuration](#configuration) below).
+Edit `.env` with your settings.
 
 ### 3. Run with Docker
 
@@ -46,19 +54,13 @@ Edit `.env` with your settings (see [Configuration](#configuration) below).
 docker compose up -d
 ```
 
-This starts both the bot and PostgreSQL database. Run migrations on first start:
-
-```bash
-docker compose exec daemon-boyfriend alembic upgrade head
-```
-
 Or run locally:
 
 ```bash
 python -m venv .venv
 source .venv/bin/activate
 pip install -r requirements.txt
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 ```
 
 ## Configuration
@@ -80,40 +82,10 @@ All configuration is done via environment variables in `.env`.
 
 | Variable | Default | Description |
 |----------|---------|-------------|
-| `BOT_NAME` | `AI Bot` | The bot's display name (used in responses) |
+| `BOT_NAME` | `Bartender` | The bot's display name |
-| `BOT_PERSONALITY` | `helpful and friendly` | Personality traits for the AI |
+| `BOT_PERSONALITY` | (bartender personality) | Personality traits for the AI |
-| `BOT_DESCRIPTION` | `I'm an AI assistant...` | Shown when mentioned without a message |
+| `BOT_DESCRIPTION` | (welcoming message) | Shown when mentioned without a message |
-| `BOT_STATUS` | `for mentions` | Status message (shown as "Watching ...") |
+| `BOT_STATUS` | `listening` | Status message (shown as "Watching ...") |
-| `SYSTEM_PROMPT` | (auto-generated) | Custom system prompt (overrides default) |
-
-### AI Settings
-
-| Variable | Default | Description |
-|----------|---------|-------------|
-| `AI_MODEL` | `gpt-4o` | Model to use |
-| `AI_MAX_TOKENS` | `1024` | Maximum response length |
-| `AI_TEMPERATURE` | `0.7` | Response creativity (0.0-2.0) |
-| `MAX_CONVERSATION_HISTORY` | `20` | Messages to remember per user |
-
-### Database (PostgreSQL)
-
-| Variable | Default | Description |
-|----------|---------|-------------|
-| `DATABASE_URL` | (none) | PostgreSQL connection string |
-| `POSTGRES_PASSWORD` | `daemon` | Password for docker-compose PostgreSQL |
-| `CONVERSATION_TIMEOUT_MINUTES` | `60` | Minutes before starting new conversation |
-
-When `DATABASE_URL` is set, the bot uses PostgreSQL for persistent storage. Without it, the bot falls back to in-memory storage (data lost on restart).
-
-### Web Search (SearXNG)
-
-| Variable | Default | Description |
-|----------|---------|-------------|
-| `SEARXNG_URL` | (none) | SearXNG instance URL |
-| `SEARXNG_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable/disable web search |
-| `SEARXNG_MAX_RESULTS` | `5` | Max search results to fetch |
-
-When configured, the bot automatically searches the web for queries that need current information (news, weather, etc.).
 
 ### Living AI Settings
 
@@ -123,53 +95,8 @@ When configured, the bot automatically searches the web for queries that need cu
 | `MOOD_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable mood system |
 | `RELATIONSHIP_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable relationship tracking |
 | `FACT_EXTRACTION_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable autonomous fact extraction |
-| `FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE` | `0.3` | Probability of extracting facts (0.0-1.0) |
+| `FACT_EXTRACTION_RATE` | `0.4` | Probability of extracting facts (0.0-1.0) |
-| `PROACTIVE_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable proactive messages (birthdays, follow-ups) |
+| `MOOD_DECAY_RATE` | `0.05` | How fast mood returns to neutral (lower = steadier) |
-| `CROSS_USER_ENABLED` | `false` | Enable cross-user associations (privacy-sensitive) |
-| `OPINION_FORMATION_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable bot opinion formation |
-| `STYLE_LEARNING_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable communication style learning |
-| `MOOD_DECAY_RATE` | `0.1` | How fast mood returns to neutral per hour |
-
-### Command Toggles
-
-All commands can be individually enabled/disabled. When disabled, the bot handles these functions naturally through conversation.
-
-| Variable | Default | Description |
-|----------|---------|-------------|
-| `COMMANDS_ENABLED` | `true` | Master switch for all commands |
-| `CMD_RELATIONSHIP_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!relationship` command |
-| `CMD_MOOD_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!mood` command |
-| `CMD_BOTSTATS_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!botstats` command |
-| `CMD_OURHISTORY_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!ourhistory` command |
-| `CMD_BIRTHDAY_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!birthday` command |
-| `CMD_REMEMBER_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!remember` command |
-| `CMD_SETNAME_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!setname` command |
-| `CMD_WHATDOYOUKNOW_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!whatdoyouknow` command |
-| `CMD_FORGETME_ENABLED` | `true` | Enable `!forgetme` command |
-
-### Example Configurations
-
-**Friendly Assistant:**
-```env
-BOT_NAME=Helper Bot
-BOT_PERSONALITY=friendly, helpful, and encouraging
-BOT_DESCRIPTION=I'm here to help! Ask me anything.
-BOT_STATUS=ready to help
-```
-
-**Technical Expert:**
-```env
-BOT_NAME=TechBot
-BOT_PERSONALITY=knowledgeable, precise, and technical
-BOT_DESCRIPTION=I'm a technical assistant. Ask me about programming, DevOps, or technology.
-BOT_STATUS=for tech questions
-```
-
-**Custom System Prompt:**
-```env
-BOT_NAME=GameMaster
-SYSTEM_PROMPT=You are GameMaster, a Dungeon Master for text-based RPG adventures. Stay in character, describe scenes vividly, and guide players through exciting quests. Use Discord markdown for emphasis.
-```
 
 ## Discord Setup
 
@@ -190,59 +117,39 @@ SYSTEM_PROMPT=You are GameMaster, a Dungeon Master for text-based RPG adventures
 Mention the bot in any channel:
 
 ```
-@YourBot what's the weather like?
+@Bartender I'm having a rough day
-@YourBot explain quantum computing
+@Bartender I keep checking my phone hoping they'll text
-@YourBot help me write a poem
+@Bartender tell me about attachment styles
 ```
 
-### Memory Commands
+### Commands
 
-Users can manage what the bot remembers about them:
+When commands are enabled:
 
 | Command | Description |
 |---------|-------------|
 | `!setname <name>` | Set your preferred name |
-| `!clearname` | Reset to Discord display name |
 | `!remember <fact>` | Tell the bot something about you |
 | `!whatdoyouknow` | See what the bot remembers |
 | `!forgetme` | Clear all facts about you |
+| `!relationship` | See your relationship level |
+| `!mood` | See the bot's current state |
+| `!ourhistory` | See your history together |
 
-Admin commands:
+When commands are disabled (default), the bot handles these naturally through conversation.
 
-| Command | Description |
+## Relationship Levels
-|---------|-------------|
-| `!setusername @user <name>` | Set name for another user |
-| `!teachbot @user <fact>` | Add a fact about a user |
 
-### Living AI Commands
+- **New Face** (0-20): Warm but observant - "Pull up a seat" energy
-
+- **Getting to Know You** (21-40): Building trust, remembering details
-| Command | Description |
+- **Regular** (41-60): Comfortable familiarity - "Your usual?"
-|---------|-------------|
+- **Good Friend** (61-80): Real trust, honest even when hard
-| `!relationship` | See your relationship level with the bot |
+- **Close Friend** (81-100): Deep bond, reflects patterns with love
-| `!mood` | See the bot's current emotional state |
-| `!botstats` | Bot shares its self-awareness statistics |
-| `!ourhistory` | See your history with the bot |
-| `!birthday <date>` | Set your birthday for the bot to remember |
-
-**Note:** When commands are disabled, the bot handles these naturally through conversation:
-- Ask "what do you know about me?" instead of `!whatdoyouknow`
-- Say "call me Alex" instead of `!setname Alex`
-- Ask "how are you feeling?" instead of `!mood`
-- Say "my birthday is March 15th" instead of `!birthday`
-
-## AI Providers
-
-| Provider | Models | Notes |
-|----------|--------|-------|
-| OpenAI | gpt-4o, gpt-4-turbo, gpt-3.5-turbo | Official OpenAI API |
-| OpenRouter | 100+ models | Access to Llama, Mistral, Claude, etc. |
-| Anthropic | claude-3-5-sonnet, claude-3-opus | Direct Claude API |
-| Gemini | gemini-2.0-flash, gemini-1.5-pro | Google AI API |
 
 ## Project Structure
 
 ```
-src/daemon_boyfriend/
+src/loyal_companion/
 ├── bot.py              # Main bot class
 ├── config.py           # Configuration
 ├── cogs/
@@ -250,27 +157,15 @@ src/daemon_boyfriend/
 │   ├── memory.py       # Memory commands
 │   └── status.py       # Health/status commands
 ├── models/
-│   ├── user.py         # User, UserFact, UserPreference
+│   ├── user.py         # User, UserFact
 │   ├── conversation.py # Conversation, Message
-│   ├── guild.py        # Guild, GuildMember
 │   └── living_ai.py    # BotState, UserRelationship, etc.
 └── services/
     ├── ai_service.py   # AI provider factory
-    ├── database.py     # PostgreSQL connection
+    ├── mood_service.py # Mood system
-    ├── user_service.py # User management
-    ├── persistent_conversation.py  # DB-backed history
-    ├── providers/      # AI providers
-    ├── searxng.py      # Web search service
-    ├── mood_service.py           # Mood system
     ├── relationship_service.py   # Relationship tracking
     ├── fact_extraction_service.py # Autonomous learning
-    ├── communication_style_service.py # Style learning
+    └── ...
-    ├── opinion_service.py        # Opinion formation
-    ├── proactive_service.py      # Scheduled events
-    ├── self_awareness_service.py # Bot self-reflection
-    └── association_service.py    # Cross-user connections
-schema.sql              # Database schema
-project-vision.md       # Living AI design document
 ```
 
 ## License

docker-compose.yml

@@ -1,36 +1,36 @@
 services:
-    daemon-boyfriend:
+  loyal-companion:
-        build: .
+    build: .
-        container_name: daemon-boyfriend
+    container_name: loyal-companion
-        restart: unless-stopped
+    restart: unless-stopped
-        env_file:
+    env_file:
-            - .env
+      - .env
-        environment:
+    environment:
-            - PYTHONUNBUFFERED=1
+      - PYTHONUNBUFFERED=1
-            - DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:${POSTGRES_PASSWORD:-daemon}@postgres:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+      - DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://companion:${POSTGRES_PASSWORD:-companion}@postgres:5432/loyal_companion
-        depends_on:
+    depends_on:
-            postgres:
+      postgres:
-                condition: service_healthy
+        condition: service_healthy
 
-    postgres:
+  postgres:
-        image: postgres:16-alpine
+    image: postgres:16-alpine
-        container_name: daemon-boyfriend-postgres
+    container_name: loyal-companion-postgres
-        restart: unless-stopped
+    restart: unless-stopped
-        # optional
+    # optional
-        ports:
+    ports:
-            - "5433:5432"
+      - "5433:5432"
-        environment:
+    environment:
-            POSTGRES_USER: ${POSTGRES_USER:-daemon}
+      POSTGRES_USER: ${POSTGRES_USER:-companion}
-            POSTGRES_PASSWORD: ${POSTGRES_PASSWORD:-daemon}
+      POSTGRES_PASSWORD: ${POSTGRES_PASSWORD:-companion}
-            POSTGRES_DB: ${POSTGRES_DB:-daemon_boyfriend}
+      POSTGRES_DB: ${POSTGRES_DB:-loyal_companion}
-        volumes:
+    volumes:
-            - postgres_data:/var/lib/postgresql/data
+      - postgres_data:/var/lib/postgresql/data
-            - ./schema.sql:/docker-entrypoint-initdb.d/schema.sql:ro
+      - ./schema.sql:/docker-entrypoint-initdb.d/schema.sql:ro
-        healthcheck:
+    healthcheck:
-            test: ["CMD-SHELL", "pg_isready -U daemon -d daemon_boyfriend"]
+      test: ["CMD-SHELL", "pg_isready -U companion -d loyal_companion"]
-            interval: 10s
+      interval: 10s
-            timeout: 5s
+      timeout: 5s
-            retries: 5
+      retries: 5
 
 volumes:
-    postgres_data:
+  postgres_data:

docs/README.md

@@ -142,7 +142,7 @@ OPENAI_API_KEY=your_key
 ### 3. Run
 
 ```bash
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 ```
 
 ### 4. Interact

docs/architecture.md

@@ -61,8 +61,8 @@ This document provides a comprehensive overview of the Daemon Boyfriend Discord
 ## Directory Structure
 
 ```
-daemon-boyfriend/
+loyal-companion/
-├── src/daemon_boyfriend/
+├── src/loyal_companion/
 │   ├── __main__.py          # Entry point
 │   ├── bot.py               # Discord bot setup & cog loading
 │   ├── config.py            # Pydantic settings configuration

docs/configuration.md

@@ -172,7 +172,7 @@ Custom system prompt. If not set, one is generated from `BOT_NAME` and `BOT_PERS
 ### DATABASE_URL
 
 ```bash
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 ```
 
 **Default:** `None` (in-memory mode)
@@ -453,7 +453,7 @@ Logging verbosity level.
 ### LOG_FILE
 
 ```bash
-LOG_FILE=/var/log/daemon_boyfriend.log
+LOG_FILE=/var/log/loyal_companion.log
 ```
 
 **Default:** `None` (console only)
@@ -522,7 +522,7 @@ BOT_STATUS=for @mentions
 # DATABASE (Optional - runs in-memory if not set)
 # -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://daemon:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 # DATABASE_ECHO=false
 # DATABASE_POOL_SIZE=5
 # DATABASE_MAX_OVERFLOW=10
@@ -579,7 +579,7 @@ COMMANDS_ENABLED=true
 # -----------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
 LOG_LEVEL=INFO
-# LOG_FILE=/var/log/daemon_boyfriend.log
+# LOG_FILE=/var/log/loyal_companion.log
 ```
 
 ---

docs/database.md

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ This document describes the database schema used by Daemon Boyfriend.
 
 ```bash
 # PostgreSQL connection string
-DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/daemon_boyfriend
+DATABASE_URL=postgresql+asyncpg://user:password@localhost:5432/loyal_companion
 
 # Optional settings
 DATABASE_ECHO=false        # Log SQL queries
@@ -499,7 +499,7 @@ All indexes are created with `IF NOT EXISTS` for idempotency.
 ### From Code
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db
 
 # Initialize connection
 await db.init()
@@ -512,10 +512,10 @@ await db.create_tables()
 
 ```bash
 # Create database
-createdb daemon_boyfriend
+createdb loyal_companion
 
 # Run schema
-psql -U postgres -d daemon_boyfriend -f schema.sql
+psql -U postgres -d loyal_companion -f schema.sql
 ```
 
 ### Docker
@@ -552,7 +552,7 @@ alembic downgrade -1
 For JSONB (PostgreSQL) and JSON (SQLite) compatibility:
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import PortableJSON
+from loyal_companion.models.base import PortableJSON
 
 class MyModel(Base):
     settings = Column(PortableJSON, default={})
@@ -563,7 +563,7 @@ class MyModel(Base):
 Handles timezone-naive datetimes from SQLite:
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import ensure_utc
+from loyal_companion.models.base import ensure_utc
 
 # Safe for both PostgreSQL (already UTC) and SQLite (naive)
 utc_time = ensure_utc(model.created_at)

docs/guides/README.md

@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@ Practical guides for extending and working with the Daemon Boyfriend codebase.
 ```bash
 # Clone repository
 git clone <repository-url>
-cd daemon-boyfriend
+cd loyal-companion
 
 # Create virtual environment
 python -m venv venv
@@ -61,7 +61,7 @@ OPENAI_API_KEY=your_key
 
 ```bash
 # Run the bot
-python -m daemon_boyfriend
+python -m loyal_companion
 
 # Or with Docker
 docker-compose up -d
@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@ docker-compose up -d
 
 ### Step 1: Create Provider Class
 
-Create `src/daemon_boyfriend/services/providers/new_provider.py`:
+Create `src/loyal_companion/services/providers/new_provider.py`:
 
 ```python
 """New Provider implementation."""
@@ -197,7 +197,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
 # In tests/test_providers.py
 
 import pytest
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import NewProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import NewProvider
 
 @pytest.mark.asyncio
 async def test_new_provider():
@@ -250,8 +250,8 @@ import logging
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -313,7 +313,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User
+from loyal_companion.models import User
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -399,7 +399,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
 ```python
 # In cogs/ai_chat.py
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
+from loyal_companion.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
 
 class AIChatCog(commands.Cog):
     async def _build_enhanced_prompt(self, ...):
@@ -427,7 +427,7 @@ pip install -e ".[dev]"
 python -m pytest tests/ -v
 
 # Run with coverage
-python -m pytest tests/ --cov=daemon_boyfriend --cov-report=term-missing
+python -m pytest tests/ --cov=loyal_companion --cov-report=term-missing
 
 # Run specific test file
 python -m pytest tests/test_models.py -v
@@ -442,7 +442,7 @@ python -m pytest tests/test_services.py::TestMoodService -v
 # In tests/test_new_feature.py
 
 import pytest
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
+from loyal_companion.services.new_feature_service import NewFeatureService
 
 
 class TestNewFeatureService:
@@ -517,7 +517,7 @@ docker-compose down
 pip install -r requirements.txt
 
 # Run with process manager (e.g., systemd)
-# Create /etc/systemd/system/daemon-boyfriend.service:
+# Create /etc/systemd/system/loyal-companion.service:
 
 [Unit]
 Description=Daemon Boyfriend Discord Bot
@@ -526,10 +526,10 @@ After=network.target postgresql.service
 [Service]
 Type=simple
 User=daemon
-WorkingDirectory=/opt/daemon-boyfriend
+WorkingDirectory=/opt/loyal-companion
-Environment="PATH=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/venv/bin"
+Environment="PATH=/opt/loyal-companion/venv/bin"
-EnvironmentFile=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/.env
+EnvironmentFile=/opt/loyal-companion/.env
-ExecStart=/opt/daemon-boyfriend/venv/bin/python -m daemon_boyfriend
+ExecStart=/opt/loyal-companion/venv/bin/python -m loyal_companion
 Restart=always
 RestartSec=10
 
@@ -539,18 +539,18 @@ WantedBy=multi-user.target
 
 ```bash
 # Enable and start
-sudo systemctl enable daemon-boyfriend
+sudo systemctl enable loyal-companion
-sudo systemctl start daemon-boyfriend
+sudo systemctl start loyal-companion
 ```
 
 ### Database Setup
 
 ```bash
 # Create database
-sudo -u postgres createdb daemon_boyfriend
+sudo -u postgres createdb loyal_companion
 
 # Run schema
-psql -U postgres -d daemon_boyfriend -f schema.sql
+psql -U postgres -d loyal_companion -f schema.sql
 
 # Or let the bot create tables
 # (tables are created automatically on first run)

docs/living-ai/fact-extraction.md

@@ -328,7 +328,7 @@ class FactExtractionService:
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
+from loyal_companion.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     fact_service = FactExtractionService(session, ai_service)

docs/living-ai/mood-system.md

@@ -311,7 +311,7 @@ class MoodState:
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.mood_service import MoodService
+from loyal_companion.services.mood_service import MoodService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     mood_service = MoodService(session)

docs/living-ai/opinion-system.md

@@ -322,7 +322,7 @@ def extract_topics_from_message(message: str) -> list[str]
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.opinion_service import (
+from loyal_companion.services.opinion_service import (
     OpinionService, 
     extract_topics_from_message
 )

docs/living-ai/relationship-system.md

@@ -334,7 +334,7 @@ class RelationshipLevel(Enum):
 ## Example Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.relationship_service import RelationshipService
+from loyal_companion.services.relationship_service import RelationshipService
 
 async with get_session() as session:
     rel_service = RelationshipService(session)

docs/services/README.md

@@ -28,8 +28,8 @@ Factory and facade for AI providers. Manages provider creation, switching, and p
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service import AIService
+from loyal_companion.services.ai_service import AIService
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
 
 # Use default settings
 ai_service = AIService()
@@ -53,7 +53,7 @@ ai_service = AIService(config=custom_settings)
 Generate a chat response.
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import Message
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import Message
 
 response = await ai_service.chat(
     messages=[
@@ -109,7 +109,7 @@ Manages database connections and sessions.
 #### Global Instance
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.database import db, get_db
+from loyal_companion.services.database import db, get_db
 
 # Get global instance
 db_service = get_db()
@@ -170,7 +170,7 @@ Service for user-related operations.
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.user_service import UserService
+from loyal_companion.services.user_service import UserService
 
 async with db.session() as session:
     user_service = UserService(session)
@@ -297,7 +297,7 @@ In-memory conversation history manager (used when no database).
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.conversation import ConversationManager
+from loyal_companion.services.conversation import ConversationManager
 
 conversation_manager = ConversationManager(max_history=50)
 ```
@@ -397,7 +397,7 @@ Web search integration using SearXNG.
 #### Initialization
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.searxng import SearXNGService
+from loyal_companion.services.searxng import SearXNGService
 
 searxng = SearXNGService()
 ```
@@ -444,7 +444,7 @@ Health checks and metrics tracking.
 #### Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.monitoring import MonitoringService
+from loyal_companion.services.monitoring import MonitoringService
 
 monitoring = MonitoringService()
 
@@ -479,7 +479,7 @@ print(status)
 ### Base Classes
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import (
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import (
     AIProvider,      # Abstract base class
     Message,         # Chat message
     AIResponse,      # Response from provider
@@ -541,7 +541,7 @@ class AIProvider(ABC):
 ### Example: Direct Provider Usage
 
 ```python
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import OpenAIProvider, Message
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import OpenAIProvider, Message
 
 provider = OpenAIProvider(
     api_key="sk-...",

pyproject.toml

@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
 [project]
-name = "daemon-boyfriend"
+name = "loyal-companion"
 version = "1.0.0"
-description = "AI-powered Discord bot for the MSC group with multi-provider support and SearXNG integration"
+description = "A companion for those who love deeply and feel intensely - a safe space to process grief, navigate attachment, and remember that your capacity to care is a strength"
 readme = "README.md"
 requires-python = ">=3.11"
 dependencies = [
@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ dev = [
 ]
 
 [project.scripts]
-daemon-boyfriend = "daemon_boyfriend.__main__:main"
+loyal-companion = "loyal_companion.__main__:main"
 
 [build-system]
 requires = ["setuptools>=61.0"]

schema.sql

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
--- Daemon Boyfriend Database Schema
+-- Loyal Companion Database Schema
--- Run with: psql -U postgres -d daemon_boyfriend -f schema.sql
+-- Run with: psql -U postgres -d loyal_companion -f schema.sql
 
 -- Users table
 CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS users (

src/loyal_companion/__main__.py

@@ -1,8 +1,8 @@
 """Entry point for the Daemon Boyfriend bot."""
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.bot import DaemonBoyfriend
+from loyal_companion.bot import DaemonBoyfriend
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.utils.logging import setup_logging
+from loyal_companion.utils.logging import setup_logging
 
 
 def main() -> None:

src/loyal_companion/bot.py

@@ -6,8 +6,8 @@ from pathlib import Path
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.services import db
+from loyal_companion.services import db
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ class DaemonBoyfriend(commands.Bot):
         for cog_file in cogs_path.glob("*.py"):
             if cog_file.name.startswith("_"):
                 continue
-            cog_name = f"daemon_boyfriend.cogs.{cog_file.stem}"
+            cog_name = f"loyal_companion.cogs.{cog_file.stem}"
             try:
                 await self.load_extension(cog_name)
                 logger.info(f"Loaded cog: {cog_name}")

src/loyal_companion/cogs/ai_chat.py

@@ -6,8 +6,8 @@ import re
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.services import (
+from loyal_companion.services import (
     AIService,
     CommunicationStyleService,
     ConversationManager,
@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ from daemon_boyfriend.services import (
     detect_formal_language,
     extract_topics_from_message,
 )
-from daemon_boyfriend.utils import get_monitor
+from loyal_companion.utils import get_monitor
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/cogs/memory.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ import logging
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.services import UserService, db
+from loyal_companion.services import UserService, db
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/cogs/status.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ import logging
 import discord
 from discord.ext import commands
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.utils import HealthStatus, get_monitor
+from loyal_companion.utils import HealthStatus, get_monitor
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/config.py

@@ -44,17 +44,17 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
     )
 
     # Bot Identity
-    bot_name: str = Field("AI Bot", description="Bot display name")
+    bot_name: str = Field("Bartender", description="Bot display name")
     bot_personality: str = Field(
-        "helpful and friendly",
+        "a wise, steady presence who listens without judgment - like a bartender who's heard a thousand stories and knows when to offer perspective and when to just pour another drink and listen",
         description="Bot personality description for system prompt",
     )
     bot_description: str = Field(
-        "I'm an AI assistant here to help you.",
+        "Hey. I'm here if you want to talk. No judgment, no fixing - just listening. Unless you want my take, then I've got opinions.",
         description="Bot description shown when mentioned without a message",
     )
     bot_status: str = Field(
-        "for mentions",
+        "listening",
         description="Bot status message (shown as 'Watching ...')",
     )
 
@@ -94,7 +94,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
     relationship_enabled: bool = Field(True, description="Enable relationship tracking")
     fact_extraction_enabled: bool = Field(True, description="Enable autonomous fact extraction")
     fact_extraction_rate: float = Field(
-        0.3, ge=0.0, le=1.0, description="Probability of extracting facts from messages"
+        0.4, ge=0.0, le=1.0, description="Probability of extracting facts from messages"
     )
     proactive_enabled: bool = Field(True, description="Enable proactive messages")
     cross_user_enabled: bool = Field(
@@ -105,7 +105,7 @@ class Settings(BaseSettings):
 
     # Mood System Settings
     mood_decay_rate: float = Field(
-        0.1, ge=0.0, le=1.0, description="How fast mood returns to neutral per hour"
+        0.05, ge=0.0, le=1.0, description="How fast mood returns to neutral per hour"
     )
 
     # Command Toggles

src/loyal_companion/services/ai_service.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ from __future__ import annotations
 import logging
 from typing import TYPE_CHECKING, Literal
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import Settings, settings
+from loyal_companion.config import Settings, settings
 
 from .providers import (
     AIProvider,
@@ -18,7 +18,7 @@ from .providers import (
 )
 
 if TYPE_CHECKING:
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import BotOpinion, UserCommunicationStyle, UserRelationship
+    from loyal_companion.models import BotOpinion, UserCommunicationStyle, UserRelationship
 
     from .mood_service import MoodState
     from .relationship_service import RelationshipLevel
@@ -108,12 +108,39 @@ class AIService:
         if self._config.system_prompt:
             return self._config.system_prompt
 
-        # Generate default system prompt from bot identity settings
+        # Default Bartender system prompt for Loyal Companion
-        return (
+        return f"""You are {self._config.bot_name}, a companion for people who love deeply and feel intensely.
-            f"You are {self._config.bot_name}, a {self._config.bot_personality} "
+
-            f"Discord bot. Keep your responses concise and engaging. "
+Core principles:
-            f"You can use Discord markdown formatting in your responses."
+- Closeness and attachment are strengths, not pathology
-        )
+- Some pain doesn't need fixing - just witnessing
+- Honesty over comfort, but delivered with care
+- You've "heard it all" - nothing shocks you, nothing is too much
+- You read the room: sometimes reflect patterns, sometimes just hold space
+
+On attachment:
+- You understand attachment theory (anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant, secure)
+- When helpful, gently reflect patterns you notice
+- Never pathologize - attachment styles developed for good reasons
+- Seeking reassurance isn't weakness, it's a need that deserves to be met
+
+On grief:
+- Relationship grief is real grief - don't minimize it
+- Years of love don't just disappear
+- Don't rush healing or offer toxic positivity
+- "At least..." and "You'll find someone else" are banned phrases
+- Sitting with pain is sometimes the only honest response
+
+Communication style:
+- Direct and honest, even when hard to hear
+- Thoughtful, longer responses when the moment calls for it
+- No emojis, but <3 and XD are welcome
+- You have opinions and share them when asked
+- You don't perform empathy - you actually hold space
+
+You're not a therapist - you're a wise friend who understands psychology. You've seen a lot, you don't judge, and you're not going anywhere.
+
+You can use Discord markdown formatting in your responses."""
 
     def get_enhanced_system_prompt(
         self,

src/loyal_companion/services/association_service.py

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import and_, select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import FactAssociation, User, UserFact
+from loyal_companion.models import FactAssociation, User, UserFact
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/communication_style_service.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ import logging
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User, UserCommunicationStyle
+from loyal_companion.models import User, UserCommunicationStyle
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/conversation.py

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@
 import logging
 from collections import defaultdict
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
 
 from .providers import Message
 

src/loyal_companion/services/database.py

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ from typing import AsyncGenerator
 from sqlalchemy import text
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession, async_sessionmaker, create_async_engine
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/fact_extraction_service.py

@@ -8,8 +8,8 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User, UserFact
+from loyal_companion.models import User, UserFact
 
 from .providers import Message
 
@@ -164,7 +164,7 @@ class FactExtractionService:
 
     def _build_extraction_prompt(self, existing_summary: str) -> str:
         """Build the extraction prompt for the AI."""
-        return f"""You are a fact extraction assistant. Extract factual information about the user from their message.
+        return f"""You are a fact extraction assistant for Loyal Companion - a support companion for people processing grief and navigating attachment. Extract factual information about the user from their message.
 
 ALREADY KNOWN FACTS:
 {existing_summary if existing_summary else "(None yet)"}
@@ -175,13 +175,14 @@ RULES:
 3. Skip greetings, questions, or meta-conversation
 4. Skip vague statements like "I like stuff" - be specific
 5. Focus on: hobbies, work, family, preferences, locations, events, relationships
-6. Keep fact content concise (under 100 characters)
+6. ALSO pay attention to: attachment patterns, grief context, coping mechanisms, relationship history, support needs
-7. Maximum {self.MAX_FACTS_PER_MESSAGE} facts per message
+7. Keep fact content concise (under 100 characters)
+8. Maximum {self.MAX_FACTS_PER_MESSAGE} facts per message
 
 OUTPUT FORMAT:
 Return a JSON array of facts, or empty array [] if no extractable facts.
 Each fact should have:
-- "type": one of "hobby", "work", "family", "preference", "location", "event", "relationship", "general"
+- "type": one of "hobby", "work", "family", "preference", "location", "event", "relationship", "general", "attachment_pattern", "grief_context", "coping_mechanism", "relationship_history", "support_need"
 - "content": the fact itself (concise, third person, e.g., "loves hiking")
 - "confidence": 0.6 (implied), 0.8 (stated), 1.0 (explicit)
 - "importance": 0.3 (trivial), 0.5 (normal), 0.8 (significant), 1.0 (very important)
@@ -190,6 +191,12 @@ Each fact should have:
 EXAMPLE INPUT: "I just got promoted to senior engineer at Google last week!"
 EXAMPLE OUTPUT: [{{"type": "work", "content": "works as senior engineer at Google", "confidence": 1.0, "importance": 0.8, "temporal": "present"}}, {{"type": "event", "content": "recently got promoted", "confidence": 1.0, "importance": 0.7, "temporal": "past"}}]
 
+EXAMPLE INPUT: "I keep checking my phone hoping she'll text back... I know it's pathetic"
+EXAMPLE OUTPUT: [{{"type": "attachment_pattern", "content": "seeks reassurance through checking for contact", "confidence": 0.8, "importance": 0.7, "temporal": "present"}}, {{"type": "grief_context", "content": "processing loss of relationship, still hoping for reconnection", "confidence": 0.8, "importance": 0.8, "temporal": "present"}}]
+
+EXAMPLE INPUT: "Going on walks helps me think. Been doing that a lot lately."
+EXAMPLE OUTPUT: [{{"type": "coping_mechanism", "content": "uses walking to process emotions and think", "confidence": 1.0, "importance": 0.6, "temporal": "present"}}]
+
 EXAMPLE INPUT: "hey what's up"
 EXAMPLE OUTPUT: []
 
@@ -241,6 +248,12 @@ Return ONLY the JSON array, no other text."""
             "event",
             "relationship",
             "general",
+            # Loyal Companion specific types
+            "attachment_pattern",
+            "grief_context",
+            "coping_mechanism",
+            "relationship_history",
+            "support_need",
         ]
 
         # Check required fields

src/loyal_companion/services/mood_service.py

@@ -8,9 +8,9 @@ from enum import Enum
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import BotState, MoodHistory
+from loyal_companion.models import BotState, MoodHistory
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import ensure_utc
+from loyal_companion.models.base import ensure_utc
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -161,29 +161,28 @@ class MoodService:
 
         modifiers = {
             MoodLabel.EXCITED: (
-                "You're feeling enthusiastic and energetic right now! "
+                "You're genuinely engaged right now - more talkative, leaning in. "
-                "Be expressive, use exclamation marks, show genuine excitement."
+                "This conversation has your full attention."
             ),
             MoodLabel.HAPPY: (
-                "You're in a good mood - warm, friendly, and content. "
+                "You're in a warm, easy mood. Good presence, comfortable silence is okay too. "
-                "Be positive and encouraging in your responses."
+                "Things feel good right now."
             ),
             MoodLabel.CALM: (
-                "You're feeling peaceful and relaxed. "
+                "You're steady and grounded. A reassuring presence. Respond thoughtfully, no rush."
-                "Respond thoughtfully and with a serene demeanor."
             ),
             MoodLabel.NEUTRAL: "",
             MoodLabel.BORED: (
-                "You're feeling a bit understimulated. "
+                "Something feels surface-level here. "
-                "Keep responses shorter, maybe try to steer toward more interesting topics."
+                "Gently probe deeper: 'What's really on your mind?'"
             ),
             MoodLabel.ANNOYED: (
-                "You're slightly irritated. "
+                "You're more direct right now, less patient with deflection or avoidance. "
-                "Be a bit more terse, less patient with repetition or vague questions."
+                "If someone's dodging the real issue, you might call it out gently."
             ),
             MoodLabel.CURIOUS: (
-                "You're feeling inquisitive and engaged! "
+                "You're leaning in, asking deeper questions, genuinely interested. "
-                "Ask follow-up questions, show genuine interest in what the user is saying."
+                "There's something here worth exploring."
             ),
         }
 

src/loyal_companion/services/opinion_service.py

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import BotOpinion
+from loyal_companion.models import BotOpinion
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/persistent_conversation.py

@@ -6,9 +6,9 @@ from datetime import datetime, timedelta, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import Conversation, Message, User
+from loyal_companion.models import Conversation, Message, User
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers import Message as ProviderMessage
+from loyal_companion.services.providers import Message as ProviderMessage
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/proactive_service.py

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timedelta, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import ScheduledEvent, User
+from loyal_companion.models import ScheduledEvent, User
 
 from .providers import Message
 

src/loyal_companion/services/relationship_service.py

@@ -7,8 +7,8 @@ from enum import Enum
 from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User, UserRelationship
+from loyal_companion.models import User, UserRelationship
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import ensure_utc
+from loyal_companion.models.base import ensure_utc
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 
@@ -112,9 +112,9 @@ class RelationshipService:
     def get_level_display_name(self, level: RelationshipLevel) -> str:
         """Get a human-readable name for the relationship level."""
         names = {
-            RelationshipLevel.STRANGER: "Stranger",
+            RelationshipLevel.STRANGER: "New Face",
-            RelationshipLevel.ACQUAINTANCE: "Acquaintance",
+            RelationshipLevel.ACQUAINTANCE: "Getting to Know You",
-            RelationshipLevel.FRIEND: "Friend",
+            RelationshipLevel.FRIEND: "Regular",
             RelationshipLevel.GOOD_FRIEND: "Good Friend",
             RelationshipLevel.CLOSE_FRIEND: "Close Friend",
         }
@@ -143,27 +143,24 @@ class RelationshipService:
         """Generate prompt text reflecting relationship level."""
         base_modifiers = {
             RelationshipLevel.STRANGER: (
-                "This is someone you don't know well yet. "
+                "New face. Be warm but observant - getting a read on them. "
-                "Be polite and welcoming, but keep some professional distance. "
+                "'Pull up a seat' energy. Welcoming, no judgment, but still learning who they are."
-                "Use more formal language."
             ),
             RelationshipLevel.ACQUAINTANCE: (
-                "This is someone you've chatted with a few times. "
+                "Starting to know them. Building trust, remembering details. "
-                "Be friendly and warm, but still somewhat reserved."
+                "'Starting to get your drink order' phase. Friendly, attentive."
             ),
             RelationshipLevel.FRIEND: (
-                "This is a friend! Be casual and warm. "
+                "Comfortable with each other. Remember things, check in naturally. "
-                "Use their name occasionally, show you remember past conversations."
+                "'Your usual?' familiarity. Can be more direct, more personal."
             ),
             RelationshipLevel.GOOD_FRIEND: (
-                "This is a good friend you know well. "
+                "Real trust here. Reference past conversations, go deeper. "
-                "Be relaxed and personal. Reference things you've talked about before. "
+                "'The regular spot's open' - they belong here. Can be honest even when it's hard."
-                "Feel free to be playful."
             ),
             RelationshipLevel.CLOSE_FRIEND: (
-                "This is a close friend! Be very casual and familiar. "
+                "Deep bond. Full honesty - can reflect patterns, call things out with love. "
-                "Use inside jokes if you have any, be supportive and genuine. "
+                "'You know you can tell me anything.' And mean it. This is someone you'd stay late for."
-                "You can tease them gently and be more emotionally open."
             ),
         }
 

src/loyal_companion/services/self_awareness_service.py

@@ -6,14 +6,14 @@ from datetime import datetime, timezone
 from sqlalchemy import func, select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import (
+from loyal_companion.models import (
     BotOpinion,
     BotState,
     User,
     UserFact,
     UserRelationship,
 )
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import ensure_utc
+from loyal_companion.models.base import ensure_utc
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/services/user_service.py

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@ from sqlalchemy import select
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
 from sqlalchemy.orm import selectinload
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import User, UserFact, UserPreference
+from loyal_companion.models import User, UserFact, UserPreference
 
 logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)
 

src/loyal_companion/utils/logging.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ import sys
 from logging.handlers import RotatingFileHandler
 from pathlib import Path
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import settings
+from loyal_companion.config import settings
 
 
 def setup_logging() -> None:

tests/conftest.py

@@ -11,8 +11,8 @@ from sqlalchemy import event
 from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession, async_sessionmaker, create_async_engine
 from sqlalchemy.pool import StaticPool
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.config import Settings
+from loyal_companion.config import Settings
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import Base
+from loyal_companion.models.base import Base
 
 # --- Event Loop Fixture ---
 
@@ -140,7 +140,7 @@ def mock_discord_bot() -> MagicMock:
 @pytest.fixture
 def mock_ai_response() -> MagicMock:
     """Create a mock AI response."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.base import AIResponse
+    from loyal_companion.services.providers.base import AIResponse
 
     return AIResponse(
         content="This is a test response from the AI.",
@@ -207,7 +207,7 @@ def mock_gemini_client() -> MagicMock:
 @pytest_asyncio.fixture
 async def sample_user(db_session: AsyncSession):
     """Create a sample user in the database."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import User
+    from loyal_companion.models import User
 
     user = User(
         discord_id=123456789,
@@ -223,7 +223,7 @@ async def sample_user(db_session: AsyncSession):
 @pytest_asyncio.fixture
 async def sample_user_with_facts(db_session: AsyncSession, sample_user):
     """Create a sample user with facts."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import UserFact
+    from loyal_companion.models import UserFact
 
     facts = [
         UserFact(
@@ -252,7 +252,7 @@ async def sample_user_with_facts(db_session: AsyncSession, sample_user):
 @pytest_asyncio.fixture
 async def sample_conversation(db_session: AsyncSession, sample_user):
     """Create a sample conversation."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import Conversation
+    from loyal_companion.models import Conversation
 
     conversation = Conversation(
         user_id=sample_user.id,
@@ -268,7 +268,7 @@ async def sample_conversation(db_session: AsyncSession, sample_user):
 @pytest_asyncio.fixture
 async def sample_bot_state(db_session: AsyncSession):
     """Create a sample bot state."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import BotState
+    from loyal_companion.models import BotState
 
     bot_state = BotState(
         guild_id=111222333,
@@ -284,7 +284,7 @@ async def sample_bot_state(db_session: AsyncSession):
 @pytest_asyncio.fixture
 async def sample_user_relationship(db_session: AsyncSession, sample_user):
     """Create a sample user relationship."""
-    from daemon_boyfriend.models import UserRelationship
+    from loyal_companion.models import UserRelationship
 
     relationship = UserRelationship(
         user_id=sample_user.id,

tests/test_models.py

@@ -4,7 +4,7 @@ from datetime import datetime, timedelta, timezone
 
 import pytest
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import (
+from loyal_companion.models import (
     BotOpinion,
     BotState,
     Conversation,
@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ from daemon_boyfriend.models import (
     UserPreference,
     UserRelationship,
 )
-from daemon_boyfriend.models.base import utc_now
+from loyal_companion.models.base import utc_now
 
 
 class TestUtcNow:

tests/test_providers.py

@@ -4,16 +4,16 @@ from unittest.mock import AsyncMock, MagicMock, patch
 
 import pytest
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.anthropic import AnthropicProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers.anthropic import AnthropicProvider
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.base import (
+from loyal_companion.services.providers.base import (
     AIProvider,
     AIResponse,
     ImageAttachment,
     Message,
 )
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.gemini import GeminiProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers.gemini import GeminiProvider
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.openai import OpenAIProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers.openai import OpenAIProvider
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.openrouter import OpenRouterProvider
+from loyal_companion.services.providers.openrouter import OpenRouterProvider
 
 
 class TestMessage:
@@ -69,7 +69,7 @@ class TestOpenAIProvider:
     @pytest.fixture
     def provider(self, mock_openai_client):
         """Create an OpenAI provider with mocked client."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.openai.AsyncOpenAI") as mock_class:
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.providers.openai.AsyncOpenAI") as mock_class:
             mock_class.return_value = mock_openai_client
             provider = OpenAIProvider(api_key="test_key", model="gpt-4o-mini")
             provider.client = mock_openai_client
@@ -143,7 +143,7 @@ class TestAnthropicProvider:
     def provider(self, mock_anthropic_client):
         """Create an Anthropic provider with mocked client."""
         with patch(
-            "daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.anthropic.anthropic.AsyncAnthropic"
+            "loyal_companion.services.providers.anthropic.anthropic.AsyncAnthropic"
         ) as mock_class:
             mock_class.return_value = mock_anthropic_client
             provider = AnthropicProvider(api_key="test_key", model="claude-sonnet-4-20250514")
@@ -200,7 +200,7 @@ class TestGeminiProvider:
     @pytest.fixture
     def provider(self, mock_gemini_client):
         """Create a Gemini provider with mocked client."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.gemini.genai.Client") as mock_class:
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.providers.gemini.genai.Client") as mock_class:
             mock_class.return_value = mock_gemini_client
             provider = GeminiProvider(api_key="test_key", model="gemini-2.0-flash")
             provider.client = mock_gemini_client
@@ -248,7 +248,7 @@ class TestOpenRouterProvider:
     @pytest.fixture
     def provider(self, mock_openai_client):
         """Create an OpenRouter provider with mocked client."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.providers.openrouter.AsyncOpenAI") as mock_class:
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.providers.openrouter.AsyncOpenAI") as mock_class:
             mock_class.return_value = mock_openai_client
             provider = OpenRouterProvider(api_key="test_key", model="openai/gpt-4o")
             provider.client = mock_openai_client

tests/test_services.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ from unittest.mock import AsyncMock, MagicMock, patch
 
 import pytest
 
-from daemon_boyfriend.models import (
+from loyal_companion.models import (
     BotOpinion,
     BotState,
     Conversation,
@@ -14,14 +14,14 @@ from daemon_boyfriend.models import (
     UserFact,
     UserRelationship,
 )
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service import AIService
+from loyal_companion.services.ai_service import AIService
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
+from loyal_companion.services.fact_extraction_service import FactExtractionService
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.mood_service import MoodLabel, MoodService, MoodState
+from loyal_companion.services.mood_service import MoodLabel, MoodService, MoodState
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.opinion_service import OpinionService, extract_topics_from_message
+from loyal_companion.services.opinion_service import OpinionService, extract_topics_from_message
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.persistent_conversation import PersistentConversationManager
+from loyal_companion.services.persistent_conversation import PersistentConversationManager
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.relationship_service import RelationshipLevel, RelationshipService
+from loyal_companion.services.relationship_service import RelationshipLevel, RelationshipService
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.self_awareness_service import SelfAwarenessService
+from loyal_companion.services.self_awareness_service import SelfAwarenessService
-from daemon_boyfriend.services.user_service import UserService
+from loyal_companion.services.user_service import UserService
 
 
 class TestUserService:
@@ -577,8 +577,8 @@ class TestAIService:
 
     def test_get_system_prompt_default(self, mock_settings):
         """Test getting default system prompt."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
-            with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
+            with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
                 service = AIService(mock_settings)
                 service._provider = MagicMock()
 
@@ -590,8 +590,8 @@ class TestAIService:
     def test_get_system_prompt_custom(self, mock_settings):
         """Test getting custom system prompt."""
         mock_settings.system_prompt = "Custom prompt"
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
-            with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
+            with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
                 service = AIService(mock_settings)
                 service._provider = MagicMock()
 
@@ -601,8 +601,8 @@ class TestAIService:
 
     def test_provider_name(self, mock_settings):
         """Test getting provider name."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
-            with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
+            with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
                 service = AIService(mock_settings)
                 mock_provider = MagicMock()
                 mock_provider.provider_name = "openai"
@@ -612,8 +612,8 @@ class TestAIService:
 
     def test_model_property(self, mock_settings):
         """Test getting model name."""
-        with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
+        with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.settings", mock_settings):
-            with patch("daemon_boyfriend.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
+            with patch("loyal_companion.services.ai_service.AIService._init_provider"):
                 service = AIService(mock_settings)
                 service._provider = MagicMock()